Health Update
Ben is still strong and gets around without too many falls despite the near paralysis of his right side. He’s had a few headaches that we’ve been able to control with Motrin. We have a store of stronger pain meds from the hospice nurses that we haven’t had to reach for yet. He gets frustrated with the constant offerings of help from us and the problems he has using his right hand.
Melinda had her first ultrasound of the baby yesterday. They’re both doing great and the baby is the exact size it should be for eleven weeks. Ben and Madie loved hearing the baby’s heartbeat for the first time, but were a little let down that there’s only one baby as they were sure it would be twins. Better luck next time, kids.
Madie has her fifth annual checkup next week, but we haven’t told her about the booster shots yet. Melinda has enrolled her in a second day of gymnastics every week to keep her activities going.
I’ve had several doctor appointments this week dealing with my blood pressure. I’ll spare you the details on wonderful tests I’ve had (and still have to come). The good news is that I’m aware of the problem and that my doctor is working with me to keep my pressure out of the stratosphere.
In summary, Ben is stable; Melinda and baby are growing; Madie is head over heals with gymnastics; and I’m taking care of myself.
Thanks for the update. What a darling baby! It must take after the Nelsons.
Although I talk to your mom often, I particularly like your postings. I admire you all for being able to express your feelings and situation with us. Your courage is an inspiration to everyone.
Sending hugs & kisses to all. Rich & Dot
Thanks for the posting of the little “peanut” pictures…just sends that baby-itis of mine a bit higher.
Glad to hear that the steadman clan is plugging along and doing well despite the circumstances. THanks for the consistent updates on the site…we all out here appreciate it. Love you all bunches!!! Hope Melinda isn’t feeling much morning sickness, and that you come through all your tests with Straight A’s. 
Do you have to study for those tests or are they all pop quizzes??
Love and hugs to you all
Shan, Abe and Quinn
Just want you to know that we love you and are always praying for you all.